As we head into the holiday season, perhaps the greatest gift we can give each other is compassion.

I have recently had several reminders,  just how often as we go about our busy days we fail to consider what circumstances those around us may be dealing with.   We just never know if that less than pleasant woman in front of us at the check out counter has just found out she lost her job, or if the grouchy person sitting next to us on the plane is returning home from a funeral, or if the reason you had less than stellar service at dinner last night was because the waiter just received some horrible news.

In the past few months I have been both on the receiving and I am ashamed to say giving end of less than compassionate behavior.   The fact is, sometimes we just have no idea what those around us may be going through.

With so many people facing financial crisis and health challenges right now, stress is at an all time high.  A smile, patience and a little understanding will go along way.

In an ideal world we would all be brave and at least reach out to those close to us.   As my dear friend Cathy Conheim says, “Three of the most powerful words in the English language are: ‘Please help me’.”   Until we all learn those words, let’s learn to be more compassionate with each other.

Compassion, it’s the gift that will keep on giving this holiday season…

Lisa Hammond
The Barefoot CEO ®